Pay It Forward
by Catherine Ryan Hyde
This book has nothing to do
with technology or the Internet, and it won't win
a Pulitzer or a Nobel Prize for great literature. It's
just a simple little
parable of the awesome power of doing good things for other people; not a new
idea, but one that can use repeating from time to
time.
You should be able to
read it from cover to cover in a couple of hours, and it may change your life.
If you're one of those people with a heart of stone,
for whom words on paper have
little or no emotional impact, then go see the movie, which opens on October
20th. It stars Kevin Spacey, Helen Hunt, and that
little kid with a complicated name
who costarred with Bruce Willis in The Sixth Sense.
The concept of the
book is simple, and is conceived by a young 12-year-old boy, Trevor McKinney,
in response to an extra-credit assignment from his sixth grade
social-studies teacher: come up with a plan that will improve the world. Trevor
devises a "bottom-up" strategy, in start contrast to the "top-down" strategy
that many of us still believe in — e.g., elect a President who is smarter
and wiser than all of us, and depend on him or her to accomplish miracles.
Trevor's plan starts with an individual — any individual, but in order to
make it relevant, start with yourself. Then find three individuals who need
a favor
— and in particular, a significant form of help or assistance, something that
they probably would not have been able to accomplish on their own. What creates
the miracle is a small twist, which becomes the book's title: instead of asking
these three individuals to pay you back for the favor, ask them to pay
it forward — i.e., to find three other individuals for whom an equally
important favor can be performed. Thus, if 3 individuals are helped at the
first
level, 9 are affected at the second level, 27 at the third level, and so forth.
Though Trevor doesn't extend the math all the way, the power of this kind
of
geometric progression is such that paying it forward 21 levels covers the entire
human race — and that's if each person does only one favor for
three other individuals. If the process starts with a thousand people rather
than
one, and if each person decides to repeat the process a few times, the process
mushrooms at a phenomenal rate. Pay
It Forward illustrates how the process works with real-world, imperfect
people who manage to bungle many of the opportunities they're given, but who
(like us) nevertheless muddle on, doing the best they can.
Could all of this
happen in such a grandiose fashion in the "real world"?
Probably not — but who cares? Even if just one person found three other individuals
and provided them with a significant form of assistance, the world has become
an incrementally better place. At least I'd like to hope so — I'm already
in
the process of picking my first round of pay-it-forward beneficiaries, but
it remains to be seen whether they'll extend the chain. In any case, you have
nothing
to lose by taking a quick look at the book — or, if you'd prefer, watching
the movie version. If it gives you any new insights or ideas, let me know.